Dating On Line, Do You Dare?

An in-depth look at the trials and tribulations of on line dating in the 21st century.

We have all heard the horror stories that go hand in hand with dating on line, yet for each negative account we hear about, there are success stories connected to dating on the Internet. Not for the faint-hearted, but as a wise man once said, he who dares, wins... or was that he who dares, comes back with interesting tales to tell?

The modern convenience of the Internet has made on-line dating a very easy option for today's single man or woman. There are literally thousands of dating sites for you to join, most of them free. Here you can upload not only photos of yourself with personal statistics including your age, height, weight, eye colour and personal preferences, but many offer quizzes and personality profiles that can match you to other individuals.

The risk of dating on line is to your privacy and safety, if you are not particularly cautious. If you do come across an individual who sparks your interest, do not be in too much of a hurry to give them your personal information, including such details as your home address or telephone number. Use a free e-mail account and a cellphone or call service for initial communication.

Take note, as you communicate with this person via the Internet, of whether they speak openly about their family and friends. Trust your instincts and if at any time some information you have been given seems too fantastical or if they seem evasive about certain questions, beware. Also, if they seem to anger easily or behave erratically, perhaps it is time to discontinue your communication.

Once you have decided that you both like each other enough to want to pursue things further, you can move from dating on line to making arrangements to meet in a public place where you both feel comfortable. This sort of arrangement depends upon the individuals involved, but ideally choose somewhere casual as a first date.

A more romantic setting is more appropriate at a later date if things do progress to romance between you. Initially though, stick to a more casual venue, like coffee at a popular coffee house or lunch at local restaurant. Daytime meetings are preferrable for a first date. Take your time in getting to know them better before moving onto evening dates.

Your personal safety is of the utmost importance, so although you are encouraged to approach dating on line with an open mind, be sure to tell a friend or family member where and when you will be meeting for your date. Though this may seem overkill, ask one of your friends to call and check up on you during your date.

The same applies for consecutive dates. Ensure that you meet in a public venue and do not be in too much of a rush to move forward. If it is meant to be, things will progress naturally from there. Dating on line can be a fun and positive experience, so long as you take a few precautions and keep an open mind.

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