The Truth Behind Dating Relationships To Find Your Soulmate

An informative look at the signs and symptoms that you have found the right person for you and how to know when you need to keep looking.

Dating relationships are as unique as the two people who take the headlong plunge into the murky waters of romance. The journey to find your soulmate is not an easy one for most. We may hear tales of two souls who meet in preschool and who, fifty years later, are happily married, but this is rare.

For those of you who have not enjoyed such good fortune in the romance department, you may find that dating relationships come and go while you search to find your soulmate. The question to ask is, how do you know when you have found the right one?

For some, it is as simple as a mutual, instant attraction that draws the two individuals together. You will know when you find your soulmate, for this one person will be the one you think of first when you wake up and they will be your last thought as you close your eyes at night. You will both find yourselves wanting to spend every free moment together and will constantly be amazed at your fascination with one another.

Dating relationships do, of course, vary from individual to individual. Not everyone may find this instant spark of attraction. Some love grows over time and what may begin as a casual dating relationship may strengthen into a deep abiding love for one another.

Your strongest guide, believe it or not, is your intuition. Positive feelings and experiences are your best guide. Is there a mutual feeling of happiness and excitement when you are together? Does this relationship stand out for you against all others? Are you being treated with respect? Does the other person make you smile, even when they are not around?

Have they spoken about you to their friends and family and have they started introducing you into their inner circle? Do they call you often and make plans to meet up with you? Do they surprise you with thoughtful gestures and do they take the time to discuss issues important to them, with you? Do you share similar viewpoints on topics that both interest you?

Relationships that are following this pattern are certainly pointing to something that may well evolve into a long-term or even a lifelong commitment. However, there are also signs that may well point to a relationship that will not last.

Again, use your emotional compass as a barometer. Do you end the date feeling uncertain or even unhappy about the way things went? Do they speak openly about their friends, family and lifestyle or do you get a sense that things are being concealed from you? Does your potential partner talk about introducing you to their friends?

Do they hesitate to make future plans with you, or do they only make arrangements to see you mid-week, always somehow 'busy' over weekends? Do they call you infrequently? Do they seem distracted or disinterested during telephone or face to face conversations?

These are tell-tale signs that this particular dating relationship may not be the right one for you.

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